You Were Created to Be Silent

When G-d Speaks, a Universe is Created; When G-d Thinks, a Soul is Created

by: Rabbi YY Jacobson

 The Silent Parrot

An old Jew received a parrot from his sons after his wife died, to keep him company. He discovered that the parrot had heard him pray so often, that it had learned to say the prayers. The old man was so thrilled, that he decided to take his parrot to the synagogue on Rosh Hashana (the Jewish new year). When he entered with the bird, the rabbi tried to protest, but when told the parrot could pray ("daven" in Yiddish), the rabbi showed interest, though still skeptical. People started betting on whether the parrot would pray, and the old man happily took all the bets that went up to $50,000.
 
The prayer starts – but the bird is silent. The prayer continues - not a word from the bird. The prayer ends, and the old man, crestfallen, is now in debt $50,000 for all of the bets. On the way home he thunders at his parrot: "Why did you do this to me? I know you can pray, you know you can pray, why did you keep your mouth shut? Do you know how much money I owe people now?"
 
To which the parrot replied: "A little business imagination would help you, dear friend. You must look ahead: Can you imagine what the stakes will be like on Yom Kippur?"
 
The Purpose of Life

“Rabbai Gamliel’s son, Shimon, would say: All my life I have been raised among the wise, and I have found nothing better for the body than silence.”
-- Ethics of the Fathers, 1:17 (chapter of this week.)
What is the meaning of these words? Why is there nothing better for the body than silence? And why the emphasis on the body, more than on the general person (“I have found nothing better for the person…”).
Silence is certainly a positive quality in life, especially in particular instances. But is really nothing better for the human body than silence?
The Talmud goes even further, stating a deeply enigmatic statement (1): “What is man’s task in the world? To make himself as silent as the dumb.”
Surely, silence is not always a bad idea, especially for certain types of people. But is this really man’s task in the world? Were we created merely to be silent? Does the Talmud believe that the entire purpose of our creation was to keep our mouths shut?
A Thing of Silence
In a brilliant exposition, the Lubavitcher Rebbe once presented the following interpretation (2).
The Torah defines all of existence as G-d’s speech. As Genesis puts it: “G-d said: ‘Let there be light!’ and there was light.” G-d said: “May the earth sprout forth vegetation,” etc.
Why does Torah employ the metaphor of speech to define the process of creation? Because in speech – unlike thought – the words of the speaker leave his or her domain and travel into a world outside of the speaker. When a person thinks, the ideas exist only within his or her own mind; when the thought is translated into words, it departs the person’s inner world, to attain an existence distinct from his.
This is why creation is described as G-d’s speech: G-d created a world which though completely dependent on Him (like words on the speaker), and continuously sustained by Him, nevertheless perceives itself as distinct and separate from G-d. In our world, one can remain completely oblivious to G-d and to any deeper reality pervading existence. One can enjoy the status of “agnostic” or “atheist,” walk our planet for ninety years and not even once entertain the idea that the presence of the living G-d vibrates through every moment of consciousness and every being. G-d “spoke” us into existence and thus allowed us to experience ourselves as “outside” and detached from His reality.
There is, however, a single exception to this model for the essential nature of all created things: the soul of man. The soul, the Neshamah, is described in Torah and Kabbalah (2) not as a Divine word but as a G-dly thought.
Why the metaphor of thought? Just as a thought never departs from the inner domain of the thinker, the soul, too, is a creation which never “departs” from the all-pervading reality of G-d. Unlike the rest of the world which experiences itself as an egotistical reality, separate from the Divine, the soul experiences itself as submerged in the cosmic oneness of reality, and never sees itself as an “entity” distinct from its Creator.
When G-d speaks, a universe is created. When G-d thinks, a soul is created.
Alone in a verbose world, the soul of man is a “thing of silence.” And its mission in life is to impart this silence to the world about it.
We were created to share the “silence” of the soul with the rest of the world, beginning with our own bodies.

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Footnotes:
1) Talmud, Chulin 89a.
2)
The Lubavitcher Rebbe communicated this idea during an address on Shabbos Parshas Acharei Mos, 24 Nissan, 5719 (May 2, 1959), published in Likkutei Sichos vol. 4 Avos ch. 1. Cf. the rendition of Rabbi Yanki Tauber of this talk at http://meaningfullife.com/torah/ethics/1/The_Soul_COLON_A_Thing_of_Silence.php
3) Zohar part II p. 119a; Ohr Torah (by Rabbi DovBer the Maggid of Mezeritch) 2c; Tanya Chapter 2.
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Comments (11)

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Monday, Jun 01 2009 - ט' סיון תשס"ט
Joe
I loved it. But what is the difference between this idea and the "silence" so often discussed in the Far-Eastern teachings?
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Tuesday, Jun 02 2009 - י' סיון תשס"ט
ok
With all due respect: If there is "nothing better for the body than silence” and if a "man’s task in the world [is] to make himself as silent as the dumb,” Why do you write so much and speak so much? Are we supposed to put all your lessons into practice? Is the lesson, Do as I say, Not as I do?
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speech/silence

Tuesday, Jun 02 2009 - י' סיון תשס"ט
alex
It may be useful to rethink Torah as a how to manual with God teaching us the elements of creating reality. When the Torah says that God spoke the universe into existence, it is actually instructing us how, in fact, we construct our reality. How we language something is the way it shows up for us. It may also be of interest to explore the creative aspects of silence and listening. When we listen, we grant existence by allowing the other to be. God created the universe by speaking it into existence and He maintains it by listening to it.
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Silence an Action Like Thinking as a Process

Tuesday, Jun 02 2009 - י' סיון תשס"ט
Chaya Gross
Perhaps one can relate to silence as and action as opposed to the absence of speech. Just like thinking can be an active, a conscious process as opposed to something we do constantly. The difference is in the intention. One can be actively or passively silent and that is what makes all the difference.
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Tuesday, Jun 02 2009 - י' סיון תשס"ט
YYJ
I love this question. I wish I would be able to say, there is talking which is akin to silence, and there is silence which is akin to talking.
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Tuesday, Jun 02 2009 - י' סיון תשס"ט
Ok
Thank you. I appreciate that you took time to respond. You say you "wish [you] would be able to say, there is talking which is akin to silence, and there is silence which is akin to talking." If you cannot say "there is talking which is akin to silence, and there is silence which is akin to talking," what genuine response can you give? Or, if you could actually say "there is talking which is akin to silence, and there is silence which is akin to talking," I have TWO questions: a) What are the criteria by which I can identify "talking which is akin to silence" and b) What are the criteria by which I can identify "silence which is akin to talking"? If an enigmatic statement has real content, then a truly wise person must be able to make that content understandable. Just because something sounds like an enigmatic, incomprehensible paradox of some sort, doesn't mean that it actually constitutes wisdom. If it has real meaning, someone has to be able to bring the meaning down to earth. I have encountered some extraordinary minds. People with extraordinary minds translate very abstruse ideas into plain, simple, direct language. They don't delight in making things mysterious. They delight in making things clear. What is the source in the Torah for your statement "the Neshamah, is described in torah not as a Divine word but as a G-dly thought"? I suppose the account of the six days of creation is the source for "When G-d speaks, a universe is created." However, what is the source in the Torah for your statement "When G-d thinks, a soul is created"? How do you say in Hebrew "a G-dly thought"? How do you say in Hebrew "G-d thinks"?
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ok

Wednesday, Jun 03 2009 - י"א סיון תשס"ט
Elki
I think there are different types of silence. One says nothing and the other flows from the depth of the soul and cannot even be put into words. There is a verse, "Ki Lecha Dumiyah Tehillah," which promclaims to G-d, "To You silence is the highest form of preaise." If one doesn't pass along messages through writing and speaking, there would be no conversations and no learning. After all, man is the only species gifted with speech and we are to use this gift advisedly.
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Wednesday, Jun 03 2009 - י"א סיון תשס"ט
Zahava
perhaps the following will clarify "there is silence which is akin to talking" An elderly man sits by the bedside of his nonresponsive wife of his youth - he says nothing ... he only sits for hours and hours. Those that pass the door whisper and snicker to one another until a wise man speaks up and tells them... "she may never remember who he is.......but he still remembers who she is" with regards to "there is talking that is akin to silence" .... whe have all heard the saying "silence is golden" When someone listens to a person that is "nonstop talking" we wish this person would have the sense to understand this meaning. When a person speaks emes/truth = the listener is captivated and entranced by the emes this person is speaking. All is silent but the emes that is penetrating your neshamo and the listener wishes only that the speaker would countinue in his silence.
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to YYJ

Wednesday, Jun 03 2009 - י"א סיון תשס"ט
ok
I was too generous: Talking = Silence and Silence = Talking are not paradoxes; they are oxymorons. To paraphrase your response: I wish I could say you took a vow of silence -- to practice what you preached.
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Thanks

Thursday, Jun 04 2009 - י"ב סיון תשס"ט
Marvin
Thank you for a soulful essay
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Friday, Jun 05 2009 - י"ג סיון תשס"ט
ol
there are times when there is no room for words, but its as if you had said them all after a tragedy, when the family looks at each other they dont say anything but just stand there..... then there is the time when you here someone speak and you have not a clue what he said, its as if he was quiet... like that person still in shock and just babbles away, nobody understands him.... to ok, your simply an idiot, go get help....
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