Ten Ways to Destroy Your Life
The Inner Story of the Ten Plagues
Dedicated by David and Eda Schottenstein
in the loving memory of Rabbi Gavriel Noach and Rivki Holtzberg and all of the Mumbai Kedoshim
And in the loving memory of a young soul Alta Shula Swerdlov
daughter of Rabbi Yossi and Hindel Swerdlov
The Thief
"But I will ask a favor of you. If I come home empty handed, my wife will never believe that I was robbed, and will accuse me of having squandered our money on gambling or liquor, and she will beat me mercilessly. Please do me the favor of firing several bullets through my hat, so I can prove to her that I was held up."
The robber saw no reason not to comply. He took the money-bag and then shot the man’s hat several times.
Again the robber complied and shot through the coat several times. When the traveler saw that the last pull of the trigger hit an empty chamber and that the bullets had all been used up, he promptly pounced on the robber, knocking him to the ground, retrieved his money-bag and fled[1].
This story, told by Rabbi Nachman of Breslov[2], conveys the tragic pattern of many a person's life. We each have a thief, or a negative inclination, lingering within us. The thief continuously wishes to rob us of our inner goodness and innocence. Yet many of us discover the willingness and the power to battle our thief only after he has fired all of his bullets against us. Only after allowing our unhealthy addictions and impulses to shoot all their bullets and entirely consume our lives, when we realize that they are hollow and empty, are we then in the position to subdue the thief and embark on the path of recovery.
These ten characteristics, also known as the "ten sefirot," ten lights, or ten points of energy, are depicted in Kabbalah in the following manner[5]:
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Hebrew Name
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English Translation
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Plague
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Keter
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Super—conscious
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Death of First—Born
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Chochmah
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Conception
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Darkness
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Binah
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Intelligence
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Locusts
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Chessed
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Love
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Hail
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Gevurah
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Rejection
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Boils
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Tifferet
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Compassion
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Epidemic
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Netzach
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Ambition
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Devouring Beasts
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Hod
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Submission
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Lice
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Yesod
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Bonding
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Frogs
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Malchut
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Confidence
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Blood
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The Nile River embodied the source of Egyptian confidence and security. Since little rain falls in Egypt, the country's agriculture and sustenance are completely dependent on the Nile. Therefore the ancient Egyptians deified the Nile[8]. The waters of the Nile turning into blood reflected the perverse state of a nation which turns its confidence into blood, using its position of strength and power to slaughter and butcher countless innocent human beings.
Frogs are cold—blooded amphibious creatures[9] that hatch in cold climates. Female frogs usually deposit their eggs into water where they hatch into tadpoles[10]. Land-living frogs deposit their eggs in cold and moist holes. Due to this, and to the fact that eggs deposited in this fashion receive no parental protection, in the Kabbalah, frogs came to reflect an emotional state of apathy, detachment and coldness[11].
This condition robs a human being of the ability to experience genuine emotional intimacy with any other person — a spouse, a child or even a friend. The "frog" personality is the person who, when asked "What's the difference between ignorance and apathy?" he replied, "I don't know and I don't care."
The attribute of submission, like all attributes of the soul, may either be productive or destructive. To forever remain a humble student of life's lessons is one of the noblest character traits an individual can possess. The ability to surrender one's ego to a higher truth is the foundation for all spiritual growth, as is the capacity to confess to an error or a wrongdoing. "May my soul be like dust," is a daily Jewish prayer[12], expressing our wish that we remain humble in the presence of life's mysteries. This is healthy humility and submission.
Destructive "Egyptian" submission is a humility that crushes one's spirit and dulls its zest for life. In this type of submission, where one thinks of himself as a worthless creature who doesn't matter, the perception of the self as useless dust develops into lice that demoralize and debase one's life. Like lice, this type of humility sucks out a person's blood; depriving him of his vitality and energy flow.
The holy Rabbi Aaron of Karlin put it in these words: "Depression is not a sin; yet what depression does, no sin can do."
Ambition is one of the greatest gifts in life. It is the engine that drives man to achieve greatness and to make a difference in the world. Yet if we do not refine this character trait, our ambitions can turn us into "devouring beasts" that crush and destroy the people we perceive standing in the way of the fulfillment of our goals.
This is moral compassion, the ability of a soul to experience the pain and the needs of its fellow human being[14].
"Egyptian" compassion is sly, shrewd and deceitful, where the seducing quality of compassionate is used in order to exploit people's weaknesses for selfish purposes and destructive goals. When one uses compassion in this well-finessed manner, it inflicts damage on a person in the silent deadly way of an epidemic[15].
ב"ה b"H inyan: inside story of the plagues
b"H
Thanks. Very helpful Perushim.
Idiot should not be Rabbis
What a stupid story.
Is this the moral of our fathers? Not mine.
The spineless Jew took advantage of the remained goodness in the thief, if the robber was completely evil as the “Rabbi” claims the jew would not have been successful if the Robber had not had left some decency and tried to help.
you know who did not have any good? Nazis. and they got allthe Jews, who were busy bending the truth in the tora to their convenience. .
open mindedness
are you sure intellectualism has a trait that can be called “open minded”?
I know it as one of definitions of defense mechanism when there is separation mind from emotions; person acknowledges the fact of a painful event but completely ignores his emotion involvement. Can we identify a person who talks about tragedy in his life with no emotional expression as an open-minded? He cannot be sincere because he is deprived from himself.
correction
I know you meant well by quoting the story by Rabbeinu Nachman of Breslov, zt"l. However, I feel compelled to mention that I never heard this version in which the man is afraid of being beaten by his wife. The way I heard it was that he was afraid of his business partners.
Also, the moral you (or Rabbi Twerski) draw from the story does not shtim in several ways -- most importantly, that in the parable the merchant is actually using the device of getting the thief to shoot holes in his hat as a ploy in order to overcome him. He didn't just wind up "learning his lesson" after having suffered various avoidable reversals in life.
I'm not sure what the true nimshal is. But a likely possibility is that it allud to Rabbeinu Nachman's characteristic strategy of relying upon emunah p'shutah in response to thoughts or arguments of kefirah. As he once remarked: "Mit ein shveig Ich fahrentfer alleh kashehs" (Chayei Moharan someplace).
also seems to be consistent with the discusion of silence as the tikkun of the chalal hapanui in Likkutei Moharan I, 54 (Bo El Paroh), in the discusion toward the end about the Gemorah's account of the death of Rabbi Akiva and the concept of "Sh'tok -- kach alah b'machshava."
Please don't take this as a criticism. I agree with my son Yonah that you are a highly gifted communicator and talmid chochom, and a credit to Chabad and gantz Klal Yisrael.
Keep up the good work!
Dovid Sears
looking for the light
Thanks for an incredible essay - I found it extremely intense to read but profoundly illuminating. Unfortunately I found aspects of myself in every one of the ten. I therefore sincerely hope that you will, like any good healer, describe the cure in a future essay - with as much intensity and accuracy as you did the illness. Or is it easier to describe the darkness than it is the light?
ten
early in Midrash Tadshe it compares 10's
and the ten brochas to Adam to.. to..the 10 makkos to the 10 dibros
...several pages later the 10 mamaros are connected to the 10 dibros in
another section...and I think (I did not bring it and it has been a
distracting morning) it also said that in although not in the kisvay yad
edition there was a mention of 10 sefiros..this later section was on the
gifts of the nesiim to the Mishkan....so in essence this could be considered
an earlier reference than the one (was it the Rema from Fano) in Yalkut
Reuveni... much earlier...I think I also have Midrash Tadshe on my
CD-rom...Only once in a while am I on...
Thank you
Right on target.
Len (Ari Hirim) Smith1/11/2010 3:45 PM