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  s j Bukht -10 years ago

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  1st time i have heard such beautiful. nice, amazing, speech. i have no words to express my true feeling, in short thanks and a lot of thanks

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  Rachel -12 years ago

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  Hi theyeshiva.net editors, you have a great site which can truly teach a lot. Thank you! I especially like Dr. Drizin's videos and his expertise on child care. Just one complaint I know you guys need donations as I can tell that a site which has this many archives probably costs a lot of rent, but do I really need to to see it every 3 minutes another pop-up asking me to donate? It can get kind of disruptful.
  
  Ok thanks and also if I want to donate my maasaer money but don't want to give my credit card number, can I send cash? To whom do I address it? You can email me back at [email protected]

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  YH -13 years ago

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  Good message, good stories. One correction. The story with the Alter Rebbe was not about Jewish cantonists which were after his time.

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  Chaim Itche -13 years ago

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  A child when told "You are a good little boy" "You are great" "You are so smart." is judgmental and evaluative praise and is better avoided. Why? Because it is not helpful. It creates anxiety, invites dependency, and evokes defensiveness. "I'm not so smart" "I'm not so good" "I'm not as great as you think I am." "If I'm smart or great or very good" then I need to fill all these expectations. Etc..

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  Chaim Itche -13 years ago

  Avrohom
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  A child when told "You are a good little boy" "You are great" "You are so smart." is judgmental and evaluative praise and is better avoided. Why? Because it is not helpful. It creates anxiety, invites dependency, and evokes defensiveness. "I'm not so smart" "I'm not so good" "I'm not as great as you think I am." "If I'm smart or great or very good" then I need to fill all these expectations. Etc..

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Chaim Drizin

• January 15, 2014
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• 14 Sh'vat 5774
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• 4045 views

Classes in this Series

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  23 min

  The Story of My Life -- How To Build Your Child's Self Esteem

  We Are the Stories That We Tell, and the Stories Others Tell About Us. Lecture 2 of 4

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  27 min

  Rewriting the Script of Your Life

  Labels Make Us Feel that We Are All of Whatever the Label Says We Are. But We Are Not All of Anything. Class 3 of 4

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  29 min

  Is There Only One Right Way to Raise Your Child?

  The Conclusion of the Series on Narrative Therapy. Class 4 of 4