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Rabbi YY With Teenagers: Ask Tough Questions; Get Real Answers

Teenagers Ask All Your Questions: Send Text To - (845) 777-4747

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Rabbi YY Jacobson live with teenagers, Thursday, 13 Iyar, 5780, May 7, 2020, 9:30 PM EST

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    Rachel -4 years ago

    loook at my texts-

    rachel kornblum- 845-659-5598

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    Rachel -4 years ago

    please 

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    Rachel -4 years ago


    Using Gmail with screen readers
    SearchComposeLabelsInbox16StarredSnoozedSentDrafts94More MeetNew meetingJoin a meetingHangoutsHangouts   More15 of 324Question to Ask the RabbiInboxMirel OrlofskyThu, Jan 7, 8:11 PM (5 days ago)to meRelationships:  In Judism, What is a good relationship to have with one's divorced parents?
    Good & Evil:
    Prayers: How can I keep praying for something I want i.e. peace between my divorced parents, and when it doesn;t happen, I get upset?
     I want to make friends however, I've been given physical and mental challenges that take up a lot of my time. Plus with Covid, it's very difficult to meet anyone. Why did Hashem make me this way and make it so hard to make a friend to talk and listen to??
    Moshiach: & Miracles: Why does the world hate Jews? Jews learn Torah to know what we are allowed and not allowed to do. Non-Jews don't want to know this. They want to make up their own rules. Jews become the conscience of the world - explaining what is right and wrong according to G-d.

    Welcome Hashem Into Your Life - Thank Him Every Day!10Rachel kornblum8:16 PM (8 minutes ago)---------- Forwarded message --------- From: Mirel Orlofsky Date: Thu, Jan 7, 2021 at 8:11 PM Subject: Question to Ask the Rabbi To: RachelRachel kornblum 8:16 PM (8 minutes ago)to Mirel

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    #CluelessGirl -4 years ago

    It is ok to have a non intimate relationship with someone of the opposite gender in your teens? just to be friends because i really enjoy his company i dont have any attraction to him in any way and would never consider marriage.

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    • Anonymous -4 years ago

      Watch part 1 

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      Sam -4 years ago

      Course not god thinks its bad for you

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        lost soul -4 years ago

        wdym? y? 

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          Sam -4 years ago

          God, the grand master of this world, decided, in his great knowlage, that boys are supirior and must not mix with girls. 

          To think otherwise would be heretic and questioning his wisdom.

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            Bracha Bas Fradel -3 years ago

            I am not a teenager but I did listen to your answer to the girls about the role of Jewish women. I feel very strongly that the core of the question is not being addressed and I would like to help clarify what the question is and the direction that I think is needed in order to reach the girl's question. As early as in the fourth day of creation, when Hashem made the two luminaries and then made the moon smaller and it complained, Hashem tried to appease the moon by giving it the stars, etc and even then as the Midrash says that every Rosh Chodesh we bring a Korbon to atone for making the moon smaller. On the other side of time, it says that when Moshiach comes, "Isha tesovev gever" , It is clear to all, that the world is being run as a patriarchal society. It is a fact that the most important thing to do is to learn Torah, and a woman is not commanded to do so and thus until the time of Moshiach plays a supportive role to men. Of course, women are important, but in order for peace to reign in a girl's heart, truth must be acknowledged. Even if they don't like it, they like less to be appeased with what they see is not the whole truth. Just one simple fact that the Torah is always addressing men, and only specifies when addressing women is an indication of it. There is so much to be said about it but my purpose is in asking you not to be apologetic but rather this is how Hashem, in His infinite wisdom wants it to be.

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            Libby Green -3 years ago

            That's not true. and if it is why does god allow marriage.

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  • Anonymous -4 years ago

    hi as rosh hashana is coming up soon iyh i was wondering..am i supposed to ask sum1 for forgivness what i did top them if they dont know abt it? i dont know what to do..thanks so much

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  • Anonymous -4 years ago

    qustion for rabbi yy

    the qustion before was by someone i know

    she is very chatty as u can tell what she basically what she wanted to say is 

    1. is there a shidduch crises?

    2. does everyone have a bashery

    thankk u for all you do 

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      sam -3 years ago

      Any one can choose to marry who they want there is no "crisis" they just want you to marry eirlier because to many are going and getting an education about the wider world and wake up during that time.

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    WHAT IS THE SHIDDUCH CRISES -4 years ago

    what is the shidduch crises? does everyone have a bshet

    what is th eshidduch crises? does everyone have a bashert?

    i mean cmon everyone ahs their own opinion  this issue, its because of this its bc of that. i mean is there actually a crisis? people claim there are not enough GOOD boys and too many GOOD girls, cmon GOOD is suh a stupid word everyone has their own definition of it. its like the word normal. yeh, so maybe you have to comporomise, by hey isnt that what life is all about? should a girl worry aboout it when she is in shudduchim? and anyway doensnt everyone have a bashert? actually speaking abt basherts does everyone actually have one, how can u miss one? do ppl who die young (lo alenu) have one, do ppl who never marry (lo alenu) have one???? dead confused here pls answer me, i welcome suggestions from anybody. oh and btw thank u so so muhc for this amazing program its so cool, half th questions i have never thought of but the way u anwerit make it make so so muhc sence. anpther awesome thing is half the questions on here re so cringeworthy to ask on public, like i do not think i would get up in a class and ask this or maybe i would, i dunno... nayway thank a mill

    a teenage girl in england!

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      me -4 years ago

      yes is it true all of this shidduch crsis thing ... me and that person where both wonering..can u pls explain???/

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      anon -4 years ago

      hi sara k,

      i know u

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        ben l -4 years ago

        hi

        i think i also know her!
        does she have blavk hair and braces?

        around 15 yrs?

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  • Anonymous -4 years ago

    When is the next program in this series?

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  • Anonymous -4 years ago

    When is the next program in this series?

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    Chaim -4 years ago

    Caim

    When is the next class

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  • Anonymous -4 years ago

    Is rabbi YY doing a program tomorrow?

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      Esti -4 years ago

      Nope. I asked him He said he's taking a break

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  • Anonymous -4 years ago

    Is rabbi YY doing a program tomorrow?

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  • Anonymous -4 years ago

    let say i am reading or listening to stuff thats inappropriate for a jewish kid, and i know it and i want to stop but i am enjoying whatever im doing. how can i strengthen myself to stop?

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  • Anonymous -4 years ago

    Thank you rabbi yy for all the amazing lectures! They have really helped me, especially the ones on emunah and bitachon!

    My question is; i really want to shteig in avodas hashem and do tshuvah on all my aveiros, but i have a problem with the step of azivus hachait and i would really like some guidance!

    Thanks in advance!!!!

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    Hackel family -4 years ago

    Thank you so much!!!

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  • Anonymous -4 years ago

    is it normal to dream about all the attention you're gonna get after you die? 

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    • Anonymous -4 years ago

      i'm only in my teens so i'm thinking maybe it's too early to think about that? but i really think about it every day...

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  • Anonymous -4 years ago

    can you trace where all questions come from? Like who submitted them, through ppl's email address?

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    Stuffed Animals -4 years ago

    what is chabad?

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      sam -4 years ago

      stuff and noncence, you know what it is

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    Kayla -4 years ago

    how can it trust rabbis when so many of them keep contradicting each other? It's so confusing. everyone says something else and it gets me really confused. How do I know who's right and who's wrong? Or are most of them right and I just have to choose whom to follow? 

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      Sam -4 years ago

      You can be sure that they wont contredict themselves about giving tzedokoh. Especialy if it goes to his wages.

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    Yael -4 years ago

    Thanks you're awesome. I was so disappointed when you said you won't do a program this week :( 

    What makes you decide whether to address a specific question or not? I submitted at least ten since you started this program a month ago and none of them were addressed yet. I want to know, is there something wrong with them, or maybe it's not interesting/relevant enough? I mean, I'm a little disappointed... 

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    Sarah -4 years ago

    Is the Rebbe really Mashiach?

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      Abra -1 year ago

      Sarah, and those wondering: 

      The Mashiach will be from one linage from the great House of Jacob (fire) and The House of Jesse (burning embers) whom King David is decended. This Mashiach will be known as the Lion of Judah (once known as Ariel), whom will be the future annointed King of Israel (Unicorn) and Judah (Lion). Judah to be restablished in Israel. In regards to Rebbe, no, as no man is allowed to choose or nominate the Mashiach from the royal linage, as only the G-D of Abraham has this divine right to choose the righful future royal Mashiach heir. As was done in the days of King David. 

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    Mickey Mouse -4 years ago

    I have an addiction to music but I don't see how it harms me. Everyone says it's crazy how I walk around in headphones all day but I really don't see it that way. it's not like an addiction to drugs or alcohol or anything like that. The worst way in which it can harm me is by possibly damaging my hearing when I'm seventy years old. So what? I'll wear hearing aids when I'm seventy. Big deal. Is it still bad that I"m so addicted? I'm really having trouble seeing the problem in this. please explain why everyone thinks this is destructive behavior. 

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      sam -3 years ago

      I always wonderd. How does micky mouse find big enough earphones?

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  • Anonymous -4 years ago

    Question:

    Thank you Rabbi YY for all your great programs during coronavirus!

    Rabbi YY has spoken much about how Hashem infinitely loves us and how we should show utmost love to Hashem and to every single Jew. I have learnt that love must be prefaced with fear of Hashem. What exactly does fearing Hashem entail? what does it mean to have Yiras Shomayim? please can you briefly explore this subject?

    Thank you very much!

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  • Anonymous -4 years ago

    Zohar

    How do we know that zohar is true? It was a private revelation from Eliyohu hanovi to reb shimon bar yochai.

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    Chana -4 years ago

    Adam and eve

    Why do we have to suffer because of Adam and Eva's sin?

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      Sarah -4 years ago

      I've always wondered about that...

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  • Anonymous -4 years ago

    Pain

    Due to  medical conditions past and present I have a lot of physical pain from medical treatment and physical pain in the body and I have to a very hard time dealing with it, can you advise how to deal with it? Am I allowed to complain and express frustration?

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      BlondeGirl -4 years ago

      yes u are allowed to complain but u must complain in the right way. the yidden in the midbar did not get punished for comlaining over the lack of food, water, rather it was the way they complained that they got punished for. 

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  • Anonymous -4 years ago

    Dear rabbi

    why is intimacy a prohibited topic for teens? I mean we all have question and since we're are "kind of not allowed" to ask we draw conclusions ourselves (which in most of the cases are missing a lot of important information) 

    i know this is a sensitive topic, but could you give us some guidance? I feel like we really need one now even more

    thank you for everything you do

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    • Anonymous -4 years ago

      Rabbit rabbi yy has a class on this.

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        Anonymous -4 years ago

        Where Can i find it?

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    Anonymous -4 years ago

    Question for Rabbi YY

    Why intimacy is a prohibited topic for teens? I mean, we have a lot of questions on this topic and it’s not very accepted to ask these type of question Even with our parents we are scared to ask because we are scared of their reaction..

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    Anonymous -4 years ago

    Question for Rabbi YY

    Why intimacy is a prohibited topic for teens? I mean, we have a lot of questions on this topic and it’s not very accepted to ask these type of question Even with our parents we are scared to ask because we are scared of their reaction..

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    Zalman M from Venice Beach -4 years ago

    Question for Rabbi YY

    How are we the 'chosen' people, if Hashem only offered us the Torah after the other nations?

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    • Anonymous -4 years ago

      We are the choosing people, hence we were chosen for choosing!

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    Menachem montreal -4 years ago

    I listened to your Q&A tonight and you reminded me of this Vort:

    Thought you might like it..

    You spoke about the image some have of Hashem.

    “we were created in Gods image; the problem is that we created God in our image…”

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    Leah Lowinger -4 years ago

    thank you so much rabbi yy words can not explain what you do for me and my friends i am jealous of your gan eden hatzlachah

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    Chaya -4 years ago

    Question for Rabbi YY

    What can emotionally get a person out of self harm?

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    • Anonymous -4 years ago

      The feeling that they have hope and a future.

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    Chaya -4 years ago

    Question for Rabbi YY

    What would you say to someone contemplating or planning suicide?

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    • Anonymous -4 years ago

      That his life is too precious for that; I would also try to get expert help needed.

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      Sarah -4 years ago

      I was  in the same situation. Please seek out professional help immediately

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    a l -4 years ago

    rabbi yy, chazak ubaruch! btw what did ur bobbe do to deserve a descendent as you

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      a l -4 years ago

      or zeydeh or rebbi etc

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    Tamara Katzman -4 years ago

    Question for Rabbi YY

    I am not a teenager but I did listen to your answer to the girls about the role of the Jewish women. i feel very strongly that the core of the question is not being addressed and I would like to help clarify what the question is and the direction that I think is needed in order to reach the girls question. As early as in the fourth day of creation, when Hashem made the two luminaries and then made the moon smaller and it complained, Hashem tried to appease the moon by giving it the stars etc and even then as the Midrash says that every Rosh Chodesh we bring a Korbon to atone for making the moon smaller. On the other side of time, it says that when Moshiach comes, "Isha tesovev gever" , It is clear to all, that the world is being run as a patriarchal society. It is a fact that the most important thing to do is to learn Torah, and a women is not commanded to do so and thus until the time of Moshiach plays a supportive role to men. Of course, women are important, but in order for peace to reign in a girls heart, truth must be acknowledged. Even if they don't like it , they like less to be appeased with what they see is not the whole truth. Just one simple fact that the Torah is always addressing men, and only specifies when addressing women is an indication of it. There is so much to be said about it but my purpose is in asking you not to be apologetic but rather this is how Hashem, in His infinite wisdom wants it to be.

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    Yossi -4 years ago

    Question for Rabbi YY

    If Hashem is ever existing from before the time of the world and above the whole concept of time why did He only decide to create the world 5780 years ago what was He doing during the other 100000000000000 years before He created the world? And what does He do all day? I heard He learns Torah but He thought of and created the whole Torah and knows everything so how could He learn it? P.s. i really enjoy your classes and they mean a lot to me

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    • Anonymous -4 years ago

      1. Time was also created during creation. So before creation there was "before" creation because time is also a creation.

      2. Hashem learning Torah is a way of saying that Torah is Hashem's mind and wisdom -- of course, He learns Torah, that is His mind, and the Torah are His ideas. Just as person with his mind studies ideas or conceived conepts, Hashem studies Torah -- His mind and thought process is represented by Torah.

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    Shmuel Jacobs -4 years ago

    Question for Rabbi YY

    I would like to appear live at this event
    Can u make a class next Thursday 🙏😉

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    • Anonymous -4 years ago

      He does make one weekly.

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    • Anonymous -4 years ago

      He does make one weekly.

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    • Anonymous -4 years ago

      He does make one weekly.

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    • Anonymous -4 years ago

      He does make one weekly.

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    mimi -4 years ago

    Question for Rabbi YY

    I think the world would not be different without me (no offence)so how is the world created for me :/

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      a l -4 years ago

      can you think of one person who youve helped?  if yes then  you cant imagine the ripple effect of that one good deed.  if not, then go ahead and  do one , even just one... 

      [actually  im inspired by your  question, and youve helped me  ! :) if you read my comment here  ! and even more so  if you will comment your thoughts about it. thanks] 

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    mimi -4 years ago

    Question for Rabbi YY

    was the world really created for me?

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    • Anonymous -4 years ago

      Yes, really.

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        Sam -4 years ago

        What sbout m?

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      Sam -4 years ago

      What about me?

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    ahuva green -4 years ago

    Question for Rabbi YY

    sorry this isn't a question; this is a raving review from a teenaged girl that loves your speeches and Q and As. thank you for taking the time to answer these crucial questions! and the question you answered about the mission of women! thank you! I was one of the girls that asked this...

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    Chaya -4 years ago

    Question for Rabbi YY

    So why was the census of the Jews only taken of men?

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    • Anonymous -4 years ago

      The census was for those who can go into the army. Even for men, it was not under 20 or over 60.

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        Sam -4 years ago

        wommen can also go to the army?

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    Eli mizrachi -4 years ago

    Question for Rabbi YY

    i feel like with everything your saying its ok to do bad or sin because god loves us so much?

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    • Anonymous -4 years ago

      When someone loves you so much, do you want to sin against Him or be close to Him?

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    Zev Volf (Zevi) Edelstein -4 years ago

    Question for Rabbi YY

    I would like to appear live at this event
    Can you explain the Inyan of Lubavitche Schechita?

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  • Anonymous -4 years ago

    EXTREMELY IMPORTANT QUESTION

    This question has always been really bothering me and I need a satisfying answer. I want to know: What's up?!

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      sam -4 years ago

      Gods up, hells down. 

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  • Anonymous -4 years ago

    How do you balance being a father? And making time to answer many teenagers and children's questions..

    What is your priority?

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      a l -4 years ago

      how? hashems will

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  • Anonymous -4 years ago

    Is there a way to speak to your parents about something that is bothering you in their relationship? Or does that breed on Kibbud Av Vaeim?

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    • Anonymous -4 years ago

      Yes, but do it with respect.

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    Kaila -4 years ago

    Question for Rabbi YY

    Some older singles died because of corona. Does that mean they had no Bashert?

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    • Anonymous -4 years ago

      We do not know the answer to that.

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    dina -4 years ago

    Question for Rabbi YY

    1.It says in tanya that every letter of someones name shows on their essence. does that mean that ppl with the same name are very similar? 2. if someone gets affected by nigunim more than others, does it show anything about the level of a persons neshama?

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    • Anonymous -4 years ago

      1. Perhaps in some ways, but they still may vary in so many ways.

      2. It means their souls are deeply connected to music.

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  • Anonymous -4 years ago

    Hi Rabbi YY,

    You saw the president. You were able to handshake. 

    Now, obviously Hashem is greater than the president. How do we have that immense connection and feeling when we speak to Hashem, to have it even more than when we see the president in his physicality? 

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